BAZAWARA

MY LIFE AS A BAZAWARA(ONCE A MARRIED WOMAN)                                                           My friend couldn’t attend my awure,I made it point to get everyone invited to this awure,it was pleasing and I begun the Preparations with jollification.Haven't come out from a very devastating marriage it was a lesson for me to stay cool with my marriage ceremony.
I am “Bazawara”once a married woman or twice a married woman,my friends supported me to prepare for my event,but I told them I have been advised by an aunt to take it as low tempo so that the blessing of Allah will be showered on me.
My friends complained bitterly about it cox they have already plan for their” yaayie”and kayan rabo….
They insisted to do it as if it was a joke,at a sober joyful mood,I asked my self,would my friends be showing me true love or disguised mockery?i leave the judgement to you!My aunt came out to see my friends in unconcerned joyous mood,knowing well that my first husband divorced me based on my “inability to give him a child”he kept abusing me verbally,and I was dying slowly in me till I met him……
My aunt looked at me and went out to continue her duties.My friend were highly in high mood that day.
Some ruin insult on my former husband,I was just grateful to Allah,just like the saying”one door closes for another to open”I knew it wouldn’t be easy with all the abuse I had in my previous marriage,but this guy I met is highly motivated that I will CONCEIVE ONE-DAY.it all Allah's plan.
I realized that against all odds this guy is far better than my previous Husband in terms  of faith.He believes in divinity aswell as “qadarra”preordain”
That night after the event I was lead by elderly in my family to my matrimonial home.i heaved a sign of relieve “hmmm”followed by Allhamdullilah for sure I know “new king new law”everyone left me.
The light then went off,where is my husband, because I don’t know where the prepaid card was placed.then lit in a corner somewhere was burning candle with a disfigured shadow…la la la,cant find my phone to call…some just knock the door,thinking it was “maigida”but still afraid,I opened the door and it was a woman,I greeted her but faintly responded,I asked her if she needs anything but she responded she is looking for my husband because she is aware that I got married to him today…how stories deserminate I started to narrate that I cant make a call cox i left my phone at my mums place!
She quickly interjected”your husband has arrears and I kept reminding him but he turned deaf ears to me,so I intentionally disconnected him and if he really trully loves you let him pay to give you LIGHT TONIGHT,NEW AMARIYA WELCOMES DARKNESS BEFORE HER HUSBAND,SHE BANGED THE DOOR!
MY STORIES CONTINUE HOW MY HUSBAND RESPONDED TO THIS WOMAN AND ME,HOW I GAVE BIRTH WITHIN A YEAR AFTER MARRIAGE?WHAT WENT RIGHT?HMMM..........stay tuned for more....

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