Modern Awure's

Many people begin one week of festivity before the tying of the knot…it is an eyesore.

Today contemporary Muslims have clean admiration for “bridal shower” bachelor's night”pre awure photo shoot”hyena day””sale day”awure day” WALEEMA, dinner”budenkai HONEYMOON”

Many people have frowned against high expenses marriage by some Muslims by quoting the hadith of the prophet saying”the less expense marriage is full of blessing” of though but another thought tells if you can afford why not?

There are many people who are forcing hard to make the most expensive marriage even though they are not up to financially.there is no competition in life.you can have a successful marriage even after the one-day event.people prepare too much towards one day show, meanwhile little is done about the substance of marriage.

The most important aspect of marriage or awure is the gaysuwa, Kuydinkai,saadaaki, and also the saalele and the dawre awure which is the five basic elements need to complete the awure,t he aspect of leefe is subjective!

Awure can be done in any day but most people prefer weekend so that family and friend from afar and beyond can come and witness.

On the saalele day, which is a day to purify and initiate a woman to the process of marriage, sometimes most women share tears of joy,because nobody know when he or she is getting married or who he will marry until that day.family and friend gathers to share funny stories, sings and entertains the bride to be.the bride is then kept in the room till she finally ties the knot with the groom.it is a day the bride pray and reflect on her past,present and future.

After the bride is adorned and dressed in a beautiful apparel queening around with the abuya amariya to show how beautiful she look for her groom.this will take place at a minimum of two days.then mallams, sheiks or ulamma, two witnesses from both the groom and the bride's family to witness the holy matrimony.the bride is then introduced to the groom in grand style, merry making, and fun.

The groom is lucky to join the league of gentlemen, and advice is offered to the couple by elderly and marriage counselors.

AFTER THIS REMARKABLE EVENT UNFOLDS THE REAL TRAITS AND CHARACTERISTICS OF AWURE( MARRIAGE)!
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